About Christianity

i find that guys, when they talk about the appearance of girls (or women), one of the things they talk about will inevitably be her appearance or looks. and when it comes to that, most guys (i admit not all) will have the habit of calling girls ugly if they feel the girl they are talking about is not pretty. it seemed like for most of them there is no vocabulary called 'average' in their dictionaries. it didn't matter if the guys themselves are ugly or not, if they don't find the girls pretty they just call them ugly.

so i was sitting with a group of guy friends one day when they started talking about girls again. this time they were talking about quite a prominent girl in the school. we all know that in every place, whether school, office, camp or anywhere else there will always be high-profilers, and everyone will know them, whether it is because of their abilities or looks. so, this guy sitting beside me (let's call him A1) was saying that the girl was ugly. i think she looks pretty decent to me, if not pretty. back to him, so he doesn't feel the girl is pretty, hence he called her ugly. the guy in front of me (let's call him A2) heard it, and asked A1 that if he can have sex with the girl for free, would he want it? well, the girl, although not the prettiest girl around, has a what you call a decent figure and decent looks. A1, being asked with such a question, thought for a while, and then said he would take it. what comes next was a bit of a stunner. A2 said, 'if you want to have sex with her, then don't call her ugly.' of course, A1 had nothing to say.

so what is the moral of the story? hmm i have no idea too. but we have to respect each and everyone else and when we talk, we have to be careful. in his own way, A2 is asking A1 to respect the girl, although the way he go about doing it is a little crude. things like appearance is not up to us to decide, and wouldn't it hurt you too if people say you are ugly? so, when we talk, remember to show people the respect they deserve and don't say hurtful things.