About Christianity

i havent been mixing with people of my age for a long time until recently. when i say that, i mean being in an environment where nearly all the people are around my age. for the past few years, i have been mixing with people much older than me, or much more mature than me. hahax i am a little humbled by my own childishness though...

different people in different age groups have different problems. but one problem nearly all of us have, is problems in romantic relationships. the difference is that, people of different maturity levels handle it differently.

i saw people who are desperate to get a partner, and i know people (which i am sure you do too) who get depressed over a relationship problem. sometimes it is a one-sided love, sometimes one like a person who doesn't know him/her. sometimes it is a case of betrayal.

one thing remains the same, which is the fact that nearly all humans desire to fall in love. some of the people were born with the looks, some with the brains. in short, there are people who were born with qualities that attract the opposite sex. for some, they had neither talent nor looks, nor anything else that attracts those from the opposite sex.

oh before i forget, the people i am referring to are all straight. meaning, i am not saying anything about homosexuals.

i think, for this post, i will be talking about people who desires to get a partner but didn't manage to get one.

so, what happens when a person falls into a one-sided love? i think it sucks a lot. what happens when a single person sees couples on the streets. he or she will envy them, i guess. i see many people listing out the benefits of being single, but it is very obvious that they are, or maybe you are one of them, masking their envy and desire with such reasons. because i think, those who really didn't care about being in a relationship will not come out with '10 reasons why being single is good'. i made sense right? i think i do.

of course, being a human means falling in love is a natural process. as long as you are human, i can say with 99.99% probability (self-proclaimed statistics) that you will fall in love. i see many stupid things that people do.

at the end of the day, some of us, or maybe i should say, nearly all of us placed too much emphasis and importance on our romantic life that we forgot what is important. of course, romance is a big part of our life. it can be a big motivating factor to push us forwards. but, it is not everything.

i think, sometimes when it is time to let go, you have to let go. because no matter what you do, the other person will never like you.

personally, i believe that God knows us well enough, and that if it is in His plans, which i think it is, He will provide you a partner most suited for you. sometimes maybe i think, i prefer girl/boy A rather than B whom God had sent me. i think, this is a common problem too. but i also know, that if God thinks s/he is perfect for you, then it has to be it.

sometimes, maybe we can don't focus too much on relationship. there are many other things we can do too. of course it sucks if you want to be attached but do not have someone. but let me ask you, by fretting, what can you accomplish? holding on stubbornly to a 'relationship' that will never have any results will only be a pain. when it is time to let go, you have to let go.

i don't know why i am saying all these. maybe it is because i am too tired to think of what to write. or maybe i am just making up a new post so that my blog's cover story will change. maybe this post is irrelevant at all. i am too busy to blog recently though. or should i say, i cannot manage my time well?

to all singles out there wanting a partner, good luck and trust in God to provide you with a suitable mate...